A Quiet Plan
for the People You Love

A worksheet for organising the things your family would need to know, without writing the secrets down.

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Before you begin

How this works

If something happens to you, the people who love you will already be carrying enough. This worksheet is a way to make sure they aren't also left wondering where to look, who to call, or what you would have wanted.

The trick to doing this safely is a simple separation: the index stays here, the secrets stay elsewhere. This document tells your family what exists and where to look. It does not, and must not, contain the actual passwords, seed phrases, or keys. Those live in your password manager (with emergency access enabled) and, for high-value items, split across trusted people using a scheme like Shamir's Secret Sharing.

The index can sit relatively openly with family. The secrets get released by mechanisms that only fire when needed.

About your privacy. This page is a static document that runs in your browser. Everything you type is auto-saved to your device's local storage and is never sent anywhere: we can't see it, and neither can anyone else. We use privacy-friendly, cookieless analytics that counts visits but never touches what's in your worksheet. Close the tab, come back tomorrow. It'll be here. Open it on a different device and you'll start fresh. Use Export backup to move your work between devices.
Do not type these things into this worksheet Passwords. Crypto seed phrases or private keys. PINs. Two-factor recovery codes. Full credit card numbers. Anything that, on its own, unlocks something valuable. Even though this page is private, browsers cache, devices get lost, and printed paper gets found. The worksheet is for pointers ("the seed for wallet X is split 3-of-5 among these people"), not the secrets themselves.
Chapter One

The basics

Who is this document for, and when was it last touched?

Chapter Two

The people

The few names that matter most when something goes wrong.

Primary executor / first call

The person who takes the lead. They don't have to be a lawyer, just someone calm, organised, and trustworthy.

Backup people

Two or three others who could step in, or who hold pieces of the puzzle (Shamir shares, copies of this document, etc).

Professional contacts

Accountant, lawyer, financial advisor, doctor: anyone they may need to call.

Chapter Three

Where things live

A map of the physical and digital spaces. Locations only, never contents.

Password manager

Important physical locations

Safe, safety deposit box, filing cabinet, drawer where the passport lives. Not the combinations.

Devices

Phones, laptops, tablets, hardware wallets. Where they are, not what unlocks them.

Attached documents

Photos of where things are kept, storage and safe locations, anything that helps someone find them. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

    Chapter Four

    The businesses

    For each thing you run, what it is and what should happen to it.

    For each business, the most useful thing you can leave behind is a clear answer to "what should we do with this?": continue, sell, or wind down. After that comes the operational detail, but the decision is the gift.

    Attached documents

    Operating agreements, key contracts, supplier and client lists, anything an executor would need to keep things running or wind them down. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

      Chapter Five

      Crypto & digital assets

      An inventory of what exists. The keys live elsewhere.

      Never write seed phrases or private keys here Or anywhere else digital, for that matter. Seeds belong on metal or paper, split using Shamir's Secret Sharing (SLIP-39 via Trezor, or a tool like ssss) across trusted people and locations. This worksheet records which wallets exist, roughly how much is in them, and who holds the shares, never the shares themselves.

      Exchange accounts

      Attached documents

      Exchange statements, wallet inventories, hardware guides. Never seed phrases or private keys. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

        Chapter Six

        Loans & debts

        Money flowing in either direction that isn't already on a statement somewhere.

        Money owed to me

        Loans to friends, advances, IOUs. Your family won't know about these unless you tell them.

        Money I owe

        Personal debts that aren't on a credit report.

        Attached documents

        Signed agreements, IOUs, repayment records, anything that shows who owes what. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

          Chapter Seven

          Accounts to handle

          Subscriptions to cancel, services to keep running, profiles to memorialise or close.

          The bulk of your hundreds of accounts will be in the password manager. The executor can work through them there. But a few warrant flagging directly: the ones with recurring charges, the ones holding meaningful data, and the ones tied to your identity.

          Subscriptions to cancel

          Services that should keep running (at least for a while)

          Domain registrations, hosting, business essentials.

          Social profiles

          What should happen to each: memorialise, close, or hand to a specific person.

          Chapter Eight

          Legacy contact setup

          Most major platforms let you name someone to receive your data after you're gone. This takes about fifteen minutes total.

          These are proactive tools: you set them up now, while alive. They sit dormant until the platform notices you've stopped checking in, then they release what you've authorised to the contact you've chosen.

          • Google Inactive Account Manager: Gmail, Drive, Photos, YouTube.
            myaccount.google.com/inactive
          • Apple Legacy Contact: iCloud, Photos, Messages, Notes.
            Settings → [your name] → Sign-In & Security → Legacy Contact. Note: does not include Keychain (passwords).
            After-the-fact claim site: digital-legacy.apple.com
          • Facebook Legacy Contact: Memorialisation.
            Settings → Accounts Center → Personal details → Account ownership and control → Memorialization.
            facebook.com/help/1568013990080948
          • Password manager emergency access: Bitwarden, 1Password, and others. Set this up in your vault settings.

          Where I have set this up

          Reactive resources (for family to use after the fact)

          Chapter Nine

          Wishes

          The personal things. There are no wrong answers here.

          Letters & messages

          You don't have to write the letters here. List who you'd like to leave a message for, and where the message can be found (a sealed envelope, a video file, a folder in Drive).

          Things I want them to know

          Last wishes & uncategorised notes

          Anything else you'd like noted. Small things, big things, whatever doesn't fit elsewhere. One per thought.

          Attached documents

          A scanned letter, a recorded message, notes on the service you'd want, anything that carries your wishes in your own words. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

            Chapter Ten

            Money & accounts

            The accounts that hold money, grow money, or pay out money. Not the balances, just where they are and who can find them.

            Banks usually require a death certificate before they'll talk. Your family won't always know which institutions to call. List them here so they aren't piecing it together from old statements.

            Bank accounts

            Investments, pensions & retirement

            Brokerage accounts, ISAs, IRAs, 401(k), workplace pensions, employee share schemes. Anything that holds money for the long term.

            Insurance policies

            Life is the obvious one. Don't forget disability, critical illness, mortgage protection, and any policy that pays out on death or terminal illness.

            Attached documents

            Recent statements, policy documents, pension paperwork, anything that helps locate and claim each account. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

              Chapter Eleven

              Property & vehicles

              The big physical things, and where the paperwork that proves they're yours lives.

              Property

              Homes, flats, land. Owned, rented, or somewhere in between.

              Vehicles

              Attached documents

              Deeds, titles, registration documents, photos, anything that proves what's yours. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

                Chapter Twelve

                Pets

                The animals who depend on you. They can't read this, but the people who'll care for them can.

                Talk to whoever you'd want to take them before putting them down here. A surprise inheritance of a parrot is not a kindness.

                Attached documents

                Vet records, microchip and insurance details, feeding and care notes, anything their next carer would need. Kept on your device, never uploaded anywhere.

                  Chapter Thirteen

                  Your task list

                  A rough order of operations. Tick as you go.

                  I. Decisions
                  II. Clean up your digital life
                  III. Document the businesses
                  IV. Record the loans
                  V. Crypto
                  VI. Platform legacy contacts
                  VII. Write the master document
                  VIII. Dead man's switch
                  IX. Stress-test
                  X. Maintain
                  A closing thought

                  One more thing

                  Doing this well is not a morbid act. It is one of the most generous things you can do for the people who love you. They will already be in the worst week of their lives. The version of them who has to deal with your accounts, your businesses, your unfinished things, that person will be grateful you sat down and did this.

                  You don't have to finish in one sitting. Save what you've got. Come back next weekend. Update it twice a year. The point isn't perfection; it's that something thoughtful exists, somewhere they can find it, when they need it most.

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